Sunday, 9 March 2008

My boys are home and thank you so so much

Hello you wonderful wonderful people. You are so so brilliant that I nearly cried! I can't believe the response. You helped me so much - each and everyone of you. You did really you did!

Here are my boys home from their Dad's

As you can see their hair is quite long and I do agree it does need cutting but up to Friday they were telling me to leave it alone they wanted it long. When they got in from their Dad's they said Mummy can we have our hair restyled. I took on alot of your tips and I told them that I liked their hair as it was and that if they wanted it trimmed that was no problem at all. Then Joe piped up, don't worry Mummy it's not your fault! Now what did that mean? I asked him what it meant and he wouldnt tell me. Anyway, I wish, so wish I had never responded to that text and I will get their hair done if they want it done but not because my ex has told me to! Crikey I wish you lot were all here to come beat him up with me like Sara and Eileen said they would!

I do so wish their Dad didnt exist - not a nice thought I know but that's how I feel. Exactly why he is my ex!! Anyway, I really, really do appreciate your comments I really do and Im going to read them all again now.

Love Lainey xxxxx

16 comments:

labdancer51 said...

Their hair isn`t that long at all Laine and certainly not scruffy, they are lovely looking lads. :o)

Love Sandra xxxx

egre328 said...

Glad you are feeling better.........just let your boys make their own choices and ignore the ex.  Eileenx   PS Still on alert if needed!

jeadie05 said...

Your welcome dear ,you sound happier than you did earlier ,What lovely boys....love Jan xx

sarajanesmiles said...

You have handsome boys there Lainey Laine, I like their hair, my J's is that long too :o)

Your ex is silly.  
He's just a silly person.
We should feel sorry for him really, it can't be healthy, being so obsessed with hair!

In future, just remember how silly he is.
Chuckle at him, rather than let him bother you.

Sara   xxx

aniracj said...

Their hair is fine 'Lainey!!! You should have seen Kevin's when he was that age.....I hated the 'curtains' look but it was his choice (and the fashion) so what is a Mum to do???. Like I said, don't respond so quick next time, reply when you have thought about it and that won't give him the opportunity to have a dig at you......easy to say when you want to punch his lights out but you are the stronger person - you are woman!!!

louiseb411 said...

Your boys are lovely, and I like their hair. I am just crying watching crufts at the moment! Love Louise xx

tellsg said...

Hi Lainey, just catching up here.  Your boys are so lovely and I think their hair is cool.  Rise above your ex .... I can only imagine how annoying and irritating he is but thank your lucky stars you managed to escape him.  Seems like he is trying to play games, good cop, bad cop.  Hmmmm.  Hugs and a happy week for you.  Tells x

debbiewebb4465 said...

They look fine Laine :-) Like thousand's of other boys their age! Take care luv, glad things are better now. And you're welcome anytime. xxx

rcfairy said...

MY God Lainey - that hair is NOT long at all!!!  What does their dad want, a short back and sides???
I'd be telling him to keep his own sexual insecurities to himself.

ally123130585918 said...

Lainie your boys are real handsome young Lads and their hair looks great ~ what is it with your ex.  (by the way I am glad he is your ex:o) ~ just try to ignore him he is not worth your while getting upset by him ~ Ally x

thegirlnexdoor77 said...

Awww...Kids are so funny when it comes to their hair...my daughter wont even let me take her to get her hair cut, but no worries one day she will be trying to break the bank when it comes to her looks and hair....Billy went through a stage when he was younger when he tried to grow his out a little longer now he wants it cut every two weeks if he can..but usually we battle that and it has to come out of his earnings if he wants it done again,  and if you ask a child at that age they could give a hoot as long as they felt loved and comfortable around their own peers then they are fine..sounds like the ex just wants to regain some of his control...keep up the good work on raising these fine young men!  Hugs and prayers for you and yours!  Hugs,TerryAnn

mtrib2 said...

I don't think your boys hair is that long at all.   I kept growing my hair a little bit longer in high school after the Beatles.   It was the style.   I eventually grew my hair very long when I was out of high school.    Now that I am 55 I have short hair because it is easier to take care of.    I save money by cutting my own hair and use a mirror to look at the mirror behind me to finish the back.    I have an electric trimmer with different depth cutting length pieces.   I use the longest one and go everywhere over my head.   I then use a sharp scissors and comb and cut over my ears.    I finally do the back using the next shorter depth plastic length piece to blend in the back and sides.   I want to make sure that my thinning hair at the top of my skull is not cut too short and combs over.    After washing and combing is any pieces are popping up I can make a snip with the scissors.    It saves me a lot of money.     As an artist I am sure your boys would let you do slight scissors trims that they would like.    It is easier than you think.   mark

firtsluv said...

Laine, there is nothing wrong with your boy's hair, they are neat and clean, what is wrong with their father?  Sounds like he is just looking for an arguement.  My son went from hair like that to having amost a shaved head with the lightening bolts design shaved on it.  He had even thought of shaving his head at one time. Now at 28 he keeps almost a skin head (boot camp cut), he feels by keeping it short he looks cleaner and working for Fedex doesn't hurt either.

jmoqueen said...

Sometimes this world would be so much better without Dad's full stop!!  I am failing to see what the problem is with your sons hair.  Anyway stick to your guns girl and don't let him get to you xx

Jenny

http://journals.aol.co.uk/Jmoqueen/MyLife

sandiej21 said...

LOL........ hun if you think your boys hair is long you should seem my Thomas's and their hair is neater too..... remember what we all said next time he tries to wind you up xx

am4039 said...

you know your ex is still trying to control you even after you two are no longer together. Like you said that's why he is your ex. Your boys are just so cute. Just ignore the ex and do what  you have to do. You have been through a lot and thank heaven you have John. Hugs and Love Marla