Monday, 10 March 2008

Feeling happy.

Thank you so so much to everyone - I know I keep saying it but I really mean it. All your advise and comments were valued to me, each and every one of them! I have taken advise and I haven't had a further go at their Dad - I was going to send him an email to say 'who did he think he was having a go at me like that!'  But I thought, after reading all your comments, it was wise to just leave alone! In future too Im not going to rise to his bait and get all wound up by him. Im going to ignore him!

Sam and Joe have said to me that they want their hair long still but they would like it in a proper style - fair enough. If they want it sorted then I will sort it for them. Not him!!! I was done doing anything for him the day I told him to clear off! And yes it was the best thing I ever done was get rid of him! I've got my John now and he is the best thing, apart from my boys, to ever happen to me.

I went back to work today - it was good because we are back to normal now and cleaning lodges normally. The people that had stayed in the lodges I cleaned left them really really messy, washing up and left all their rubbish!

John has told me he doesnt want me doing extra cleaning jobs - so I had to cancel the people I was going to see tomorrow. John said that it even though we need the money my health is more important and he said that he loves me so much he doesnt want me hurting myself. Bless him. We do need the money though! John said we will just have to go without rather than me cleaning for other people!  Still least I tried! I might find something esle to fill in the days Im not at the holiday park!

I do love my John!

My boys are excited coz their new beds arrived today! Its always nice when you get a new bed - I remember that when I was little. They ran in from school and went straight up to see them! Hee hee!

Thank you again all of you for visiting me! That uplifted me like you wouldnt believe! I'm still going to do my own alerts for a while because I dont think the AOL ones are working  and I will try visit you all too!

Love Laine xxx

P.S. I found a picture of the ring that John bought me from Ernest Jones for Valentine's day. xxx

14 comments:

madcobug said...

Glad that you have made a decision about the boy's hair. Bless John for trying to help take care of your health. I have had alerts coming in from your last two entry's. Have a great afternoon. Helen

egre328 said...

Glad you are feeling happier......that's all that matters.  Eileenx

jeadie05 said...

So pleased you are feeling happier about everything ,and that the boys have told you how they want their hair ,so(((((raspberry)))) to your ex John is so nice about the cleaning ,and your ring is really pretty ..love Jan xx

thegirlnexdoor77 said...

What a pretty ring so happy to hear work is going good for you and that you and the boys sorted their hair out among yourselves!  Have a wonderful rest of the week!  hugs,TerryAnn

jeadie05 said...

Hi Laine yes Im in your side bar ...love Jan xx

louiseb411 said...

Nice ring! What a great man you have now I would love mine to tell me to stop work!! Glad the hair thing is OK  Love Louise xx

jmoqueen said...

That's a beautiful ring :o)  You've got a good 'un in John so keep hold of him with all your mite xx  Glad your happy.........

Jenny

http://journals.aol.co.uk/Jmoqueen/MyLife

gaboatman said...

Laine
I'm glad you were able to get this situation sorted out.  Your John sounds like a great guy and the ring is beautiful.
Sam

getmeslippers said...

Sorry I didn't offer you any advice, I wasn't well.  I am glad you are feeling happier now.  Your boys look so cute, little surfer dudes.  I love your ring.

zoepaul6968 said...

Im so glad you are much more positive today,keep your smile hun,keep your smile and the horrible people leave you alone,Im sure John and your sons will love you to be happier,not so down,you have so much to look forward to and your ex is just plain jealous.Thats his problem,not yours,remember now that he is back in your boys lives,keep taking a deep breath before you react,its not to avoid arguing with him,its to protect your mental health,I wouldnt want you to end up like I did.Im so happy that you have found a new love in John,its the kind of love some of us only dream about,that ring is so beautiful,keep John and your boys close and you will never feel that pain again,love zoe xxxxxxxx,p.s yes Im in your side bar,you poor woman lol xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

am4039 said...

the ring is beauitful. I'm so sorry I get so far behind with my reading. Since I have been sick I got even farther behind. John does sound like a gem. Just take care of  yourself right now.

labdancer51 said...

You have such a lovely man Laine. :o)   Oh yes, I am in your sidebar. :o)

Love Sandra xxxx

sandiej21 said...

The ring is beautiful hun, you have a wonderful man and two lovely sons, so next time the ex starts look at that ring and remember how happy and lucky you are now and SMILE!!!!

Sandie xx

ukgal36 said...

wow that is a gorgeous ring!
good to hear you so happy..i am so behind..your boys are so handsome by the way!
Lyn